12 Things Brides Regret Not Doing at Their Wedding
Updated on March 23, 2020 · by Kate Motina
Wedding planning is filled with many do’s and don’t, but there are things that lots of brides clearly regret not doing at their wedding. We reviewed over 10,000 comments from real brides to learn the top things they would have changed if they were to plan their wedding again. We have included a list of 12 most common answers – things that you may want to think twice about before crossing them off of your wedding planning list.
Picture perfect arms?
The Dress Switch?
Keep reading as #10, #11 and #12 had stirred up quite a storm among brides.
1. Paying Extra For Non-Watermarked Photos
The idea of watermarked photos isn’t necessarily a bad one. It can certainly save you some money. However, here are a few things to consider: – there are packages that offer high-resolution options with both unmarked photos and marked photos as a compromise – if you plan to submit your photos to wedding blogs to be published, or to post on social media, keep in mind that most blogs prefer unwatermarked wedding photos – photographer logos can be very distracting on the photos, look for photographers that have tastefully integrated the watermark or logo that does not compromise the images. In the end, you are doing this only once and there are no re-takes, so choose carefully.
2. The Open Bar Dilemma
Many guests expect that weddings have an open bar if alcohol is being served. This causes lots of stress for many couples as they fret over the costs. Offering only wine, beer and a signature drink will save considerably, so you can have an open bar and still keep the costs under control. No matter which alcohol you choose, it’s crucial to not go over the top. When planning the number of spirits and drinks for the wedding, just follow these practical rules – one serving per person per hour of a reception. So if you have a 5hr reception and 100 guests, plan for 500 servings.
3. Bridal Box Subscription
FACT: Brides often forget to enjoy their engagement due to wedding planning stress and forget to treat themselves while trying to make everyone else happy. What is a Bridal Box Subscription? Bridal box subscription is a service that sends you a box full of wedding themed goodies to make wedding planning more fun and also help plan & prepare for the big day. How does it work & when to subscribe? Subscribe for a plan with the number of months left till your wedding day and enjoy a curate box full of bride-to-be goodies delivered to your doorstep. You’ll get the best experience if you subscribe right after getting engaged. What’s typically inside these boxes? The boxes typically include full-size items such as wedding planners, vow books, cake toppers, robes, bridal apparel, bachelorette party essentials, and lots more fun and useful items to help with planning journey and pamper the bride-to-be! Which Bridal Box should I get? We have reviewed the top bridal boxes and Miss To Mrs™ Box Subscription was our clear favourite. Not only their boxes were most affordable, but the value for your money was far greater than the competition. Why did we pick Miss To Mrs™ Box: – Best contents value & items quality – Themes are tailored to your planning stage – Plans for 2020 to 2022 wedding dates – Monthly, Bi-Monthly, Quarterly options – 20% OFF first box with code LOVE – Spoil yourself OR Gift it
4. Skipping Ceremony
Food Your reception is not the only time you might need some snacks for your guests. It is not a very good idea to keep the guests hungry while you are having your wedding photoset. Your guests will really appreciate a light snack bar, providing different options such as cheese and fruits. PRO TIP: 8 pieces of veggies with dip, 4 ounces of cheese, 1½ pounds of crackers per 20 guests, 1 pint of dip per 10 guests. Consider how long guests will be waiting before dinner. On average guests will eat 6 to 8 appetizers per hour. If you have a long intermission between the ceremony and reception, more appetizers are better. A Appetizers will typically help keep your buffet cost down since guests will eat about 10% less at dinner if appetizers are served.
5. 1st Dance Song
A surprising point on the list of the things brides regret is the 1st dance song. Your first dance is much more than just a music track. Listen to the lyrics and your heart, but try not to overthink it. It is very romantic to pick a song that can be yours – and bring back sweet memories. PRO TIP: Take a few choreography lessons. Usually, 5-6 lessons are enough even for a couple who has never danced before. Start your dance practice at least 1 – 1.5 months before the wedding.
6. Hotel For Wedding Night
The newlyweds are usually so exhausted, that they need to be taken care of. So don’t hesitate to book a hotel not less than 4 stars for the wedding night. When booking, mention that it will be your first married night together to get some compliments from the hotel administration, as well as order some extra services as: * fresh fruits in the room; * a bottle of good champagne on ice; * desserts as a cake, strawberry or chocolate; * breakfast included.
7. Not Giving Photographer
A Photos Checklist When you got your beautiful photos, it’s sometimes surprising to see just how few family pics you actually have, or not having a photo of you in your wedding dress. During the rush and nervousness, it can be hard to keep everything in mind. PRO TIP: Discuss this with your photographer in advance: * How many family pictures you would like to have, pictures with bridesmaids, etc; * Discuss camera angles, poses, locations; * Tell the moments to be captured (during a reception, father-daughter dance, etc); * Anything you think is important to have in the wedding photos, or NOT to have. Make a photo checklist!
8. Picture-Perfect Arms
One of the first things that brides do when they get ready for the wedding is working hard at the gym. While it is important to stay fit, don’t overdo it. PRO TIPS: The appearance of the arms depends a lot on the pose. Don’t keep them too close to your body – squished, they will look twice their actual size in the photos. When taking pictures with flowers, aim to hold your arms below belly line. This slight bend will make your arms just perfect. Another great pose is to hold your hands on the waist, which elongates your legs and draws attention to your smallest widths.
9. Skin Savior
It’s insanely important to save your perfect look and makeup during the wedding, so that make sure you have the next items in your wedding beauty case: 1. Thermal water. It will help put yourself together and refresh your face after spending time in rooms with literally no air, long trips by car, long reception and late dance parties. 2. Powder and concealer. The wedding isn’t a one-hour event, so be ready to check your makeup often. 3. Lipstick. Don’t flatter yourself if you come up with an idea to change the color of your lips after the reception. It has to be the same lipstick during the whole event. 4. Matting serviettes. You need to shine, but your nose doesn’t need to have that oily look in the pics. 5. Perfume or scented water. The bride must exhale fragrance!
10. The Dress Switch
Brides are very mixed on this topic. Some wish they wore their dress longer, others wish they had something more comfortable to dance in. We think a lot depends on the style of the dress you chose and perhaps to be extra careful if you are renting your dress. Consider having two dresses – one for the ceremony and one for the reception, especially if you have a ballroom gown or a mermaid style dress. Also, there is a worthy alternative option – a transformer wedding dress with removable skirt or train. It can be easily transformed from a poofy to a cozy and simple outfit.
11. Shoe Savvy
Yes, the wedding heels are nice, but you will feel so much better slipping into something more forgiving for the reception. So go for something less stylish, but more comfortable. Elegant lace ballet flats or mary janes are just perfect after the ceremony is over.
12. A Quality Moment
And last, but not least! Take a break for the two of you, go somewhere quiet and just savor the moment you two have been waiting for. Take a break for the two of you, go somewhere quiet and just savor the moment you two have been waiting for. In Summary If you made it this far, we hope you found some good advice. Don’t take all the advice literally, take what you think is right for you. Never regret anything. It’s your wedding day!
GOOD LUCK.
