Shari - 100kgs count down
In one of our photoshoots for the new collection BELLE CURVE 2022, we found Shari for the size 20 wedding dresses. When we met for the first time, during the fitting we could see the loosing skin all around her body. And we found out that she is such a strong young lady with an impressive story. I have been wondering that what made her transformation from over 200kgs down to size 20? Listen to her story through our small interview with Bella E La Bestia Bridal team.
How did you start with the process to undergo weight loss surgery?
My decision to have surgery happened when I was 24 years old. I was very young and very over weight. I was over 200kgs and had a meeting with a surgeon who told me I wasn’t going to live past 35 if I didn’t do something about my health. That really scared me.
What was the feeling before and after the surgery?
Before my surgery I was really excited- I knew this was a new chance for me- to get my health back- and be able to do things I couldn’t do before. I was never scared- I was just so ready. The time was right for me.
When I woke up from my surgery all I wanted to do was get home and start living my new life- and learning about myself all over again- what I liked, what I didn’t like. I had a really smooth recovery.
How has your life changed since then?
My life has changed sooo much since my surgery. Not only have I lost 100kgs- I have gained so much more- my confidence is beaming, I can physically do tasks like tying my shoes, getting out of bed- all things I really struggled with earlier. I am rediscovering passions I had once lost- like makeup and fashion. Life is good!
Amazing transformation. Shari has such a bright smile on her all the time after the surgery.
What's the hardest thing ever happened to you and how did you overcome it?
I’ve faced many challenges in my life- but the hardest thing I’ve ever heard was that I was going to die if I didn’t change my life. That was so confronting to me and it really did scare me. I didn’t want to miss out on watching my nephew grow up, or getting myself married, or even having the chance to have my own children some day. That really was so hard to think about. But I realised the way I was and the weight I was- was my own doing. And therefore only I could make the decision to change it. You have to really want to.
What would you love to say to the brides that want to loose weight and all women in general?
To anyone who is thinking of changing their life- if you’re wanting to improve your health- always think of your “why”. For me losing weight was never about a number- or being a certain weight, or looking a certain way or being a certain size. I just wanted to be healthy. That was my why. Have a really good support system around you. Know how to dust yourself off when you fall down. And most importantly- find balance. Life is meant to be enjoyed and nothing brings more joy than food. I enjoy all foods now- but I do so mindfully.
Last but not least, It’s so important to me to really love yourself at every stage- and every size. How we talk about ourself matters- so much!
Shari looks stunning in all of our wedding gowns.
To our beautiful brides that have been through to lost weight surgery or going to do it, you have 100% of our support. It’s a big decision but we believe that many brides will be transformed and happy with new life like Shari.
